A relationship is the purpose of online acquaintance. Dates help to understand whether it is possible to build relationships with someone you’ve gotten acquainted with on an international dating site. The very first date plays a special role: it helps to figure out whether arisen feelings during online communication real or not. Indeed, often when we want something so bad, we tend to idealize the situation and the person.
Meeting a Foreigner in His Country
There are three possibilities for arranging the first date with a foreigner:
- a man arrives in the city where a woman lives;
- a woman visits a man in his country of residence;
- a man and a woman meet each other in a chosen country.
To start with, let’s consider the most popular first date place — man’s country of residence. Sometimes women may refuse to travel to another country of the world due to the lack of money for such a trip, but Europeans often offer a girl they like meeting each other on his territory paying for her flight and accommodation.
Plan on living in a hotel, not in his house. This option is suitable for a girl who has never communicated with this man in real life. But if you already know each other perfectly, if he has a big house or apartment where you will be safe, take advantage of the offer: you will get a lot of useful information for yourself about the way he behaves.
If the guy is determined to build meaningful relationships with you, he will certainly introduce you to his friends and family. But if his intentions are far from being married, he will hide you from his social circle. If you live in his house, you can see the way he spends his spare time. If he locks himself in his office or always sits behind a computer then he can continue chatting with other women on a dating site.
What to Pay Attention to When a Man Invites You to His Place
Pay attention to whether a man is an initiative and helps you with your arrival, documents, booking, etc. It’s great if he deals with these issues on his own; however specify whether he is booking a room for you, for both of you or even expects you to live in his house.
Remember, try not to anger a man especially with the sudden message that there will be no more dates if he seemed inadequate, strange or suspicious during your first date. Just try to get back home as soon as possible. Under no circumstances give your documents and tickets to the man, no matter how much you trust him.